Taking a break after Christmas Day

In our first advent/christmas season with my wife as a priest the main difference for me has been an increase in what I need getting presents and preparing for the big day.  

For my wife there has been an increase in workload over the same season.  A fair bit of this is down to the long list of special church services and related events that only happen during advent and christimas.

So she's done various christmas fayres, school nativity plays, church nativity plays, christingle/carol/crib services, christmas dinners laid on for older/on their own folk plus the usual home visits and funerals.

By the time we got to Boxing Day she was ready for a break - plus its a good time for clergy to take a Sunday off, (clergy are only allowed to take so many Sundays off a year).  Fortunately we'd thought of that idea beforehand - and so managed to book a few days in small flat for 2 on the Norfolk coast - from which there are several great walks we could go on. 

So my top tip to husbands of newish Revs - if you can - book some time after advent and Boxing Day to go away and have some time away together enjoying walks and each others company.

Do Revs always get a cold sometime in December?

So here we are at the first christmas my wife has done as a Rev.  And it certainly is a very busy season for her.

Early in December she got quite a bad cold - and soldiered on through it.  Thankfully she has managed to get over it before this busy christmas week.

I'm told that its often typical for a Rev to get a cold during December - apparently its the combination of increased workload plus lots of school visits that increase their chances of catching something.

Clergy numbers being what they are now-a-days there normally isn't an option to retreat to bed to recover.  Few churches have the luxury of that sort of cover.  So I'm told most Revs with xmas colds just soldier on like my wife did.

Being in charge of the Christmas Lunch

For all of our marriage until now the other half had been in charge of the christmas dinner and I'd been on peeling, washing up and gravy making duties.  

But when my wife became a Rev the task of cooking the big meal fell into my lap (not literally).

Having got a briefing from her on tips and tricks I've decided to do as much of the preparation as possible on Christmas Eve.

With luck that will mean that on the day apart from cooking the meat and veg everything else will just be a warm up job.



Wish me luck!

Crimbo #Decorations & Presents

So this is the first Christmas my wife has done as a Rev.  She tells me that her colleagues have said that christmas is also often a busy time for funerals.  (Something to do with the colder weather and people trying to hang on till christmas but not making it - apparently).

Add to that the various Christingles and Crib and Carol and so on services the other half is preparing for and her time is full up.  Which means she isn't going to have a lot of time to be involved in all the other round the home things that happen around christmas,

So I'm taking the lead on Christmas decorations, present buying and posting, card writing, turkey cooking and booze buying.